今天听到一个非常有趣的道理想跟大家分享，这是作者侯文詠在《不乖》书里写到的。人生就是像跟团一样，你可以选择跟着旅行团走或者自己一个人自游行走。跟团有跟团的好处，方便，安全，景点都安排好了。就像是父母亲对子女的未来都在心中安排好了，好好读书，读好学校，找个好工作，娶个好老婆，生个好小孩，买个好房子。这就是参加人生的旅行团必走的路，但很多时候会发现到别的地方有什么有趣的你就不能下去。但慢慢长大就会觉得人生只有这样吗？你就会想看一些不同的风景。

人生不一定要跟着团走，有时有想去的地方也可以自己自游行，不是很危险吗？Mark Twain有讲过这句话：

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

过二十年以后你回头去看，你最后悔的通常不是你做的那些事，而是你那时候想做但没去做的事情。

Hmm, there still things that i said I wanted to learn in the past...maybe I should start signing for those course if time in SCS permit...and my guitar course the other time, didnt really complete the last level....haiz....nvm, if i manage to pass out as Sergeant, then will have higher allowance, and then can go learn! woo!